I have lost my mother. We buried her on October 1st. It still does not seem possible that I lost her so quickly. She went to the hospital while I was in Europe. Nobody told me. It's mom - she has been in and out of the hospital a million times. Nobody wanted to ruin my vacation.
By the time I got home on September 23, 2015 she was no longer speaking. I don't know whether or not she could hear me but I really hope so. I had spoken to her on the phone while I was in Europe but I never got to say goodbye. It bothers me. A lot.
She didn't have much pain. I didn't let her. I gave her meds every time I even THOUGHT she was in pain. She died peacefully. She was 80 years old. She had a very good life. I am grateful.
I'm so sorry Elena. There's no easy way to go through the loss of a parent. My thoughts will be with you, and I will be praying for your peace. Love you gal!
ReplyDeleteI am so very deeply sorry for your enormous loss. Praying God's comfort for you all.
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